Breakfast
Started the day early with the baby. She took her bottle and went back to sleep. Harper came downstairs sometime around 7:15.
After my wife got up, we made some
pancakes
eggs
& sausages
Coffee
& small glass of orange juice
Breakfast was very nice, but proceeded with a LARGE argument between my wife and I. The argument centered on the salary that I am presently receiving, the limitations that this presents and whether or not she should get a job (or I another job). Since completing my PhD, I have had additional pressure from my wife to identify and get a job that pays a heftier salary. I'm scheduled for a substantial raise, but to live the lifestyle we would like (having her at home) my present position may not cut it. The argument struck at fundamental perceptions of divergent perspectives on issues, problem solving and blame. It didn't end quickly and included some very loud shouting in front of the girls.
My wife left the house (as previously scheduled) to take care of some errands. During this time, my two daughters and I watched some Sponge Bob. After putting the younger one down for her nap, Harper asked me if I wanted to play Mulan and Shang (from Disney's Mulan). This is not a game, but rather "pretend". She knows that this is my favorite of the princesses (mostly because she's the only one who can fight). The predominant activity for Mulan and Shang was to dance, which more or less consisted of me holding her tight and spinning in a circle. It was a very sweet gesture and showed me that she hears it all, especially the bad.
Later,
gingerbread cookie (Christmas gift)
My wife was upstairs playing with the baby on the floor. I could hear them all through the monitor. Harper proclaimed that she was scared. I thought, what could she be afraid of? She's in the room with her mother and sister. When my wife asked, what she was afraid of she said, "monsters". After stating this, i could hear her run downstairs, when she turned the corner, she was looking for me. I asked if something was the matter. She asked me if I was leaving. I said, "Nope", picked her up and hugged her for a few minutes, asked her for a kiss and distracted her by asking if she wanted something to drink.
There is some football on tv...SO:
Chips & salsa
2 beers
handful of pretzels
Dinner was had around 9:00pm.
Slow cooked Chicken
Rice
Asparagus
2 Recees peanut butter cups